Blog tagged as Autism

Imposter syndrome hits differently when your brain was never the default.

It doesn’t announce itself.


It shows up quietly — right after the win. Right after the promotion, the praise, the moment where, by every external measure, you’ve arrived.

And instead of pride, you feel something closer to dread.


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06.05.26 10:01 PM - Comment(s)
The Friendship Gap Nobody Talks About

What Object Constancy Has to Do With Friendship

Object constancy develops around ages two to three. At first it’s simple: understanding that things still exist even when you can’t see them. That’s why peekaboo works on babies — when you cover your face, they genuinely believe you’ve disappeared. As w...

06.05.26 09:37 PM - Comment(s)
Therapeutic Congruence

Why Being Real Is Part of the Work


There’s a version of therapy where the therapist sits behind a neutral mask — careful, measured, strategically unreadable. For some clients, that distance feels safe. For many neurodivergent clients, it feels like a wall. Congruence is the antidote to that wall. It’...

25.03.26 07:00 PM - Comment(s)